From the moment she walked into the service at Temple B'nai Jehudah, people could tell something was wrong with Esmie Tseng. In Esmie's 16 years, she'd been to the temple only once before, on a church field trip, though she could probably see its roof from her Leawood home a few blocks away.

It was 6 p.m. on a Friday in late July, and Rabbi Neal Schuster had begun the sundown service. Esmie came in and sat with the congregation, its members arranged in a semicircle of plush chairs around the Sabbath candles. Schuster, a gentle, soft-spoken 36-year-old, had never seen Esmie before. But right away, he could tell she was troubled. "It was clear something was going on with her," Schuster says. "She wasn't crying, but you could just tell. If you can read people, you can tell."

As the congregation settled into their seats, Esmie stood. A strikingly pretty Asian teenager, she wore her everyday uniform of jeans and a tank top. She walked to the center of the circle of chairs, leaned over and blew out the candles. Then she took her seat. Puzzled, the rabbi lit them again. Esmie stood up, walked to the center and blew them out again.

Eager to restore order to his service, Schuster waited until a moment when the congregation was singing, then quietly asked the girl, "Do you need to talk to somebody?"

Yes, she told the rabbi, she did need to talk. Three members of the congregation escorted Esmie outside. She explained that she had come to the temple because she was running away from home. She told them that she had heard voices and the voices had told her to blow out the candles. Somebody dialed 911.

Officer Catherine Kamler, of the Overland Park Police Department's Juvenile Unit, arrived at the temple to take Esmie home. Taking kids back to the place they're running away from is pretty standard, Kamler says. She couldn't have known that she was returning Esmie to the house where she would be arrested August 19 on charges of first-degree murder in the death of her mother.

Shu Yi Zhang died from multiple stab wounds, and the limited details that have been made public suggest that the crime scene spread through several rooms in the house. What investigators found was grim enough that Johnson County District Attorney Paul Morrison filed a motion to try Esmie in adult court. Instead of spending a few years in juvenile jails, Esmie could spend years in prison.

Oddly, her arrest has brought Esmie new friends. Sympathetic strangers — soccer moms and their usually disinterested teenagers — have rallied behind her. For months, they've signed petitions to keep Esmie out of adult prison, flooded the prosecutor's office with calls, and dedicated Web sites to her. Even as her father has wavered on whether to stand by his only child, Esmie has garnered so many supporters that bailiffs have had to turn them away at her packed court hearings.

But some of Esmie's most staunch supporters remain in the dark about the girl they're trying so hard to save. And just as people missed Esmie's obvious cries for help, her supporters are missing some of the main messages Esmie's story relays about their cul-de-sac-stagnant kids.

District Court Judge Brenda Cameron's tiny courtroom at the Johnson County Courthouse fills with reporters, onlookers and Esmie's friends an hour before her hearings. Johnson County Sheriff's Office deputies have to disappoint pushy moms begging to be let in after the room fills. Court employees tell high schoolers, skipping class to attend, that anyone sitting on someone else's lap has to leave.

As bailiffs led Esmie in for her second court hearing September 13, some supporters wept. She wore gray jailhouse sweats. Her hands were cuffed and fastened to a thick belt around her waist. Her legs were shackled, and her black hair, normally stick-straight, instead hung in limp waves below her shoulders. "I'm scared," she mouthed to friends seated in two rows of wooden benches.

The hearing was nothing more than an early step in a case that could take a year or more, but her supporters came in force. Esmie answered the judge's questions in whispers. When her father spoke on her behalf, her face crumpled. When she spotted the friends who hadn't made it into the courtroom waving from outside, she smiled. And when it was time for her to go back to juvenile detention, she pleaded: "No, I want to stay here."

Outside the courtroom, Esmie's friends from Blue Valley North High School hugged and huddled together. They declined, as they had since the stabbing, to speak to reporters and instead headed to the IHOP on 119th Street in Olathe. Her friends' mothers chatted in groups. Esmie's father slipped away in silence.

The one Esmie supporter who has been eager to speak to the press since the beginning is a middle-aged father of three from Prairie Village named Jacob Horwitz. "It's humiliating and hard for a 16-year-old to be shackled like that when so far she's not convicted of anything," he says. "Who knows what damage that might do to her? She doesn't have a true understanding of the consequences yet or what's happened. She's confused."

Horwitz is often referred to as a leader of Esmie supporters, though he accepts the title reluctantly. It began for him after Esmie's arrest, when he found her online diary on livejournal.com under the name "rockonlittleone." He read for three hours straight, voraciously consuming three years' worth of Esmie's writings. By the time he was done, Horwitz felt like he knew the girl better than he knew his own kids. Esmie's personality seemed to come off the screen and hug him. Inspired, Horwitz started Friends of Esmie, a group devoted to convincing prosecutors to try her case in juvenile court. He set up the Web site Esmie.com, a clearinghouse of Esmie news, Esmie pictures and Esmie testimonials from friends and neighbors. Putting up the site cost about $300, Horwitz says, and it has had more than 12,000 visitors.

Horwitz says he had never been involved in any kind of activism. He makes good money running a business that services computers at McDonald's restaurants. In a side venture, he sells novelty candles that burn multicolored beads of wax. Esmie's case attracted him, he tells the Pitch, because he believes that she is like his own kids, whom he describes as responsible, hardworking students. His son won't stay at a party if he sees beer, Horwitz says. Reading Esmie's diary, he was shocked by the maturity and worldliness of her posts. "I was intrigued, you know?" he says. "It was a kid in my neighborhood, so it was a little close to home. From the way my kids talked about her, I knew she's not some whacked-out kid who did something stupid."

Horwitz says other parents have said that if Esmie were free, they would let her baby-sit their children. "Don't you think that's amazing? Don't you think that's saying something, that you can't find anyone to say something bad about her, and she killed her mother? It could be any one of those parents' kids someday. One bad decision on a Friday night when they're out with friends."

It isn't that he believes — as at least one mother in the group does — that Esmie should go free. Rather, he was struck by the idea that the juvenile justice system was created for kids, and here's a kid, one of our kids, as he likes to say, who doesn't deserve to be tossed in jail with adult criminals. Horwitz drew some conclusions from reading her posts. "I genuinely think she wanted to be a good kid and make her parents happy," he says. "Fuck, she's in jail worried about her SATs!"

Like everybody interested in Esmie's case, Horwitz has a theory. "She was under tremendous pressure, and she had a fight with her mother and just snapped. That's my assumption. Just theoretically, I figure she was in the kitchen, and she and her mom had a fight, and she grabs a knife and stabs her, and whether it was once or 50 times, it's like, for once in her life, for five minutes, she goes from being this nice, quiet, picture-perfect little Asian girl to this psycho, whacko bitch. You can read it several different ways, and there should be consequences if we find out this is what happened."

Horwitz says he will attend Esmie's next hearing, scheduled for January 18. His wife is due to give birth to their fourth child around that time. His Bluetooth and Blackberry should keep him up to speed on the labor, though. "Don't push! I'll be done by 1!" he jokes.

Much of Esmie's online writing mirrors journals from any other sarcastic, music-loving, rabidly social teenager reaching into cyberspace. But everything has since taken on new meaning. These are, after all, the words of a girl accused of stabbing her mother to death.

Esmie decorated her Web page on Xanga.com to express a moody teenage sulk. Now it's a chilling sight. The background includes a bubble, pasted over the heads of two unsmiling models, with these words: "Sometimes I wonder if I have a mental illness. I don't want to tell anyone because I am scared that my fears would be confirmed. So I don't tell people what is going on in my head. And I just pretend to be as normal as I possibly can."

Then there's her fatalistic Livejour nal.com rant on the meaning of life. "The human race DOESN'T CARE if you as an individual just up and choke; the earth doesn't care," Esmie wrote in a post dated February 9, 2004. "The human race is doomed. Everything and everyone is temporary ... Go ahead and try to win a religion argument, DOESN'T MATTER whether you're right or wrong because you are still going to die. You won't find shit out even when you die.

"Either this is all or somewhat true," she concluded, "or I am fucking screwed and may as [well] start packing for Hell right now."

Xanga and Livejournal act as networks, connecting people through posts and comments that lead readers to other people's sites. After Zhang's death, Esmie's friends suddenly had a whole audience of strangers devouring every post she left. Eventually, a friend figured out how to close Esmie's Web diaries to onlookers, but not before some of her writing ended up on other Web sites and in newspapers.

A post from January 30, 2004, hints at Esmie's problems just beginning. "I need someone to please tell me how to shut up this brain and the thoughts that won't leave me alone. I need someone to please tell me how to sleep soundly through the night without waking up seven or eight times in the span of six hours. I need someone to please tell me how to sleep."

After Esmie's mother threatened to sell her piano during an argument, Esmie vented online. "IT DISGUSTS ME THAT YOU WOULD TRY TO HURT ME LIKE THAT. SELL MY PIANO? Sell my fucking piano?" she wrote. "IF YOU SELL MY PIANO YOU BETTER BE PREPARED TO USE THAT NUMBER TO SOCIAL SERVICES, BITCH. I wish I believed in hell."

In her diary entry dated February 1, 2004, she tries to explain why she rarely shows emotion. "If you've never seen me cry, it's not because I hold it in. It's not because I suppress my inner depression. It's not in me. I don't get sad. I stay calm, no tears. I get angry. Maybe it will come kick me in the ass later, but I don't deal or cope with these type of feelings like expected."

Some posts include song lyrics, making them seem more sinister than Esmie might have intended. Esmie writes, quoting a lyric from the band Silverstein: "I close my eyes and I can see you dead."

Esmie's old clique from her elementary and middle school days included Katie Jones, Sarah Casey and Amelia Mallett. These were Esmie's good-girl friends, her inside-joke friends, her sleepover friends. They knew Esmie from the days, as she would write in her journals, before she became a stranger to herself.

They knew all of Esmie's little quirks — the way one of her eyes is slightly darker than the other, or the before-bed ritual of popping all the joints from her neck to her toes (which grossed Katie out completely). Cracking on her own Asian ethnicity and the culture's stereotype of overachievement, Esmie would walk into a room and proclaim, "The chink is here!" She was a big hugger, they say, but quick to snap at someone she disagrees with.

On the honor roll for two years in high school, Esmie never tried to hide her intelligence. She seemed never to forget anything she learned, and her mind was all about organization and itemization. Over the years, Esmie became more obsessive about things, Amelia says. If Sarah's bag was messy, Esmie would dump it out and organize it. She started exercising for hours at a time; stretch marks formed around new muscles. Her extensive friend list on her Xanga page was immaculately kept; each time she met new friends, they would be added to the list. Everything in its place.

Her need to control her surroundings came from her controlling parents. Last winter, Esmie posted a Livejournal entry in which she wrote that her parents had threatened to move because she had gotten three B's on a report card otherwise filled with A's. "I don't fucking know what I'm going to do," she wrote. "I'm scared what I might resort to. They don't realize they can't stop me, they're only going to force me to sneak around and lie and become indifferent to conscience." She punctuated the post with "HELP" in bold, inch-high letters.

Once, the four friends spent weeks planning a sleepover, but the night of the event, Esmie called the girls from her house, crying. It was rare to hear her cry. As Sarah listened, Esmie crawled down the stairwell to a landing where she could peer into the room where her parents yelled at each other in Chinese. Esmie watched as her mother held a knife to her own throat and threatened to hurt herself, Sarah says. Later that night, Esmie got a ride from her father and managed to join her friends at Sarah's house. She was a little shaken at first but later acted as if nothing had happened.

When she was in middle school, Esmie's family moved from north Johnson County to the Blue Valley School District. At Blue Valley North High School, Esmie left behind her sleepover friends. Her new gang painted mascara rings around their eyes, streaked their hair, sneaked out at night and smoked cigarettes at Oak Park Mall. Inside jokes on their Xanga sites often referred to drugs. They posted self-portraits online with their digital cameras, testing out sexy expressions. Esmie had made bad-girl friends.

Activities for high school kids in Leawood are limited. There's little more than the mall and the movie theater. Oh, and drugs.

That last fact will shock no one who's spent time in an American public high school. Blue Valley North is no exception. Kids brag on their Web journals that scoring — weed, acid, mushrooms, Ecstasy — is as easy as getting a drink from the school water fountain.

After Esmie's arrest, accounts in The Kansas City Star never mentioned drugs. In fact, the stories seemed to confirm what her supporters believed about her, that Esmie's controlling parents had put so much pressure on her that she snapped. But firsthand accounts from her friends tell of drug binges that often preceded depressive crashes.

At Blue Valley North, Esmie's new best friend was Ashley Sosebee, whose online journal is filled with references to 'shrooms and affectionate names for Ecstasy pills — green apples and red dragons. It was with Ashley and other Blue Valley friends that Esmie took the plunge into the drug world, experimenting with mushrooms and Ecstasy.

Ashley's boyfriend at the time was Mark Harvey, who's now a 20-year-old chemical engineering student at Cornell University. Esmie became very contemplative on Ecstasy, Harvey recalls, but afterward, she'd crash hard. "That's what you call the comedown from E," he says. "Hers was bad, and she got really depressed."

Esmie had good reason to be depressed that summer: frequent drama from a new boyfriend, a good-looking 16-year-old fellow Blue Valley kid named Wade Wrightsman. Wade, who worked at the Taco Bell on 145th Street, probably had some bad-boy appeal. Johnson County District Court records show that he'd spent a year on probation for two juvenile cases, a disorderly conduct charge in November 2004 and a home burglary charge from May 2005.

Wade and Esmie bonded partly because they could relate to each other's family dramas. Wade started a Xanga page that summer under the title "SummerHaze420." His first post on July 19 complains that his father called him a "fag" for donning a fedora. "My only response is, dad, at least i dont wear whity tighties and jeans that are 10 sizes too small.... you fucking buttnut, and umm that dick of a dad told me to get a pink triangle on my shoulder.... that nazi ... later fuckers!"

At a party in July, Wade made out with a mutual friend, and Esmie heard about it later. She begged her friends through her online journal on July 10 to give her the details. She signed off with: "Can I please just get some fucking closure here?"

After the breakup, Esmie drove around as a passenger in a car with a group of friends, pill in hand. Ashley says Esmie insisted on using Ecstasy to dull the pain. "There was a bunch of us who told her not to do it," Ashley says. "It's not a good thing to do. She wasn't happy at all. We told her not to." Esmie did it anyway, and when she crashed, she blamed Ashley for the bad thoughts the comedown conjured up. "That's why it didn't make any sense," Ashley says, "because the day after, she yelled at me, and then she was like, 'I know, I'm sorry.'"

When Esmie and Ashley tried psychedelic mushrooms for the first time, with Harvey baby-sitting them both, Esmie talked about missing Wade. Ashley and Esmie didn't hang out much after that. "She was really sad all the time, and I couldn't cheer her up anymore," Ashley says. "All she wanted to do was, like, be with Wade and stuff, and she started hanging out with other people more."

As Esmie self-medicated, her old friends say, she was losing it.

"Like, one time," Katie says, "she was talking about how she was worried that people could read her mind and stuff. She just got kind of weird, like she was realizing a lot and she didn't know what to think about it."

Sarah says, "It was like she was on a bad acid trip, basically."

Shortly before Zhang's killing, Esmie called Amelia, sounding weird and distant. Amelia suggested that Esmie seek professional help. Amelia says Esmie replied, "But what if you want to be a professional?"

"She was really reaching for something," Amelia says. "I wish I could have been the person who knew what to say." Esmie talked of running away and asked Amelia's mother, Dr. Nancy Tilson-Mallett, if she could stay with them. But Amelia's family went on summer vacation, and by the time they got back, the idea had fallen through the cracks.

Katie says Esmie started having flashbacks and asking her friends if their memories of her as a little girl matched her own. She asked Katie and Sarah if they remembered a fight Esmie had had with her father. She also asked if, as a little girl, they remembered her having bruises. Katie and Sarah said they couldn't.

"She seemed sort of defeated," Sarah says. "I think she just lived with her family and their expectations and, like, that life for so long that it was wearing down on her. And I think things were getting worse. I think her parents just kept expecting more, and she was starting to realize how incredibly bad things were."

What filled Esmie's last posts were crumbled relationships, college entrance exams and escalating fights between her parents. The anxiety swelled to a sustained internal scream that burst somewhere inside that Leawood house. On August 19, Esmie was charged with the killing of her mother.

Harvey and Ashley split up after he went back to college. Harvey says that during a fight over the phone, he accused Ashley of pushing Esmie over the edge by introducing her to mind-altering drugs. He knew it was the worst thing he could say, and Ashley was furious. She deleted every trace of Harvey, erasing him from her Web pages and her life. "Esmie wrote to Ashley and said it wasn't Ashley's fault, but obviously Ashley still has that concern," Harvey tells the Pitch. "She probably thinks that's why Esmie stopped hanging out with us so much and went a little crazy and killed her mom."

"We all, like, are more cautious and more careful about what we do," Ashley says of her friends and their partying ways. "[Mark] said that just to make me mad and to make me feel bad and stuff. He wants to get me in trouble."

Esmie's house sits on a quiet Leawood street. It's a neighborhood of two-car garages and American flags, steep-peaked triangular roofs and rock facades. It's not ostentatious. Her own house has a big, block-shaped window overlooking the street, between the first and second floors. It's gray with a white door, and it faces a driveway that curls around a red-brick planter holding three fir trees. The house backs up onto a brush-thick creek.

Esmie's old friends remember her family as very protective of their only child. Before Esmie could visit friends' homes, her dad had to make sure that family pets were docile. Her friends do an impression of the way her mother used to scream her name. The name Esmie is French, and her mother was never really able to pronounce it. Instead she would yell, "Essa-me! Essa-me!"

Her friends say her parents blamed her for their problems. When Esmie's mother was laid off from Sprint, she complained to Esmie that it was her fault she wasn't able to retire. Katie says that Esmie would find typed, hand-signed notes on her computer monitor from her mother. "She would say that she was ashamed to have Esmie as a daughter, that she was a disappointment, that she was lazy," Katie recalls. "If my mom gave me a note like that, I'd burst into tears."

Instead, Sarah says Esmie would have little reaction. "Esmie wouldn't cry about it or anything. She'd take the piece of paper, correct all the grammatical errors and spellings, and hand it back to her."

A post on Esmie's journal from Christmas Eve 2003 describes the uncomfortable relationship she had with her father. A couple who lived nearby had stopped off to give her a Christmas present. "My only real Christmas present on Christmas. WOW, that was ... worth pondering," she wrote. The couple noticed medals she had won at math competitions. "When I told her they were from math, [the neighbor] was like, WOW GENIUS! Dad stepped in to say definitely not."

Those who have spoken with her father say that he partly blames demons for the violence in his home. The day it happened was also the day of the Ghost Festival, a traditional Chinese day when spirits and ghosts are said to come from the underworld to visit the living. He's also superstitious about his age and has told close friends that at 58, the men in his family all meet with bad luck.

It took him two months to issue a statement asking for Esmie to be tried as a juvenile. He was absent from Esmie's first hearing but has come to subsequent court appearances. On the bench, he sits ramrod-straight, eyes closed, warding off stares and questions. He leans on a cane and seems fragile, as though he could be knocked over with a strong wind. One of the first things he did in the wake of his wife's death, according to family friends, was sell Esmie's piano.

Esmie has her father's support, but she also has found a brand-new mom. Tilson-Mallett, Amelia's mother, went to court to get medical power of attorney over Esmie so that she could accompany the girl during physical and psychological tests. She says that Esmie's toxicology from the day of her arrest came back drug-free.

If something happened to Esmie's father, Tilson-Mallett and her husband have said they would act as her guardians. Tilson-Mallett, who practices internal medicine, says there's a logical way to look at what happened. "As a scientist, I know the biology of the brain in adolescence," she says. "The impulsivity, the lack of control — it's so crazy in a teenager, and it doesn't fully develop until you're in your twenties. As a mother of a 16-year-old, I know how emotional they can be."

Tilson-Mallett corresponds with Esmie and visits her at the Juvenile Detention Center in Olathe, something that none of Esmie's school-age friends can do. At first, Esmie's thoughts in jail were scattered and disjointed, and she was limp and unresponsive at her very first court appearance due to shock, Tilson-Mallett says. Since then, she's become more coherent.

Esmie's supporters don't include the other girls in jail. "She says she feels people look at her like she's a murderer," Tilson-Mallett says. "That's what she calls herself, a murderer. She says she doesn't know how it [the stabbing] happened but feels people will think of her as evil. I wrote back and said, 'You're not evil. We believe in you. We just have to get you some help.'"

Esmie writes to her friends, too. Her friends say she has come to grips with the possibility that she will be in jail for a long time. She told Katie in a letter that she misses her mother. "She said people don't really realize that she lost her mom as well, and she's sad because she doesn't have her mom anymore," Katie says.

Horwitz, the Esmie.com creator, has written Esmie letters of encouragement. Esmie hasn't written him back. "It could be weird, maybe, to be writing to some 40-year-old guy she's never met," Horwitz says. "It could be creepy. I understand that, too. She doesn't know me. I didn't expect her to write back."

Esmie wrote a letter to the Pitch, too. She says she misses her music the most; the radio isn't cutting it. (Olathe juvenile detainees get radio privileges occasionally.) She knows that even though this is the biggest thing to happen in her own life, in the grand scheme of things she's just another news blip.

"To the people in the morning sipping their coffee or eating dinner with their dysfunctional families, I'm just another kid who's screwed up," she writes. "They'll shake their heads. They'll make a decision that I should rot in here or I should be let off, then move on while I'm still in here. While you're all shopping with your friends or watching a rented movie on DVD, I'm being tortured by my thoughts and all of the obvious memories and just being in here."

The handwriting is neat, with bubble periods. Esmie forms the capital letter "I" uniquely. In every instance, it's shaped like a question mark.

Local Group and Lawyer Trying to Keep Esmie's Case in Juvenile System

By Anthony Tao - KansasCityChinese.com

September 22, 2005

Jacob Horwitz, a father of three, was among the many who packed the Johnson County courthouse on Sept. 13 to attend the first public court appearance of Esmie Tseng, accused of stabbing her mother to death last month in their suburban Overland Park home.

"You did not see an adult escorted in and out," Horwitz said. "You saw a small, shivering, scared child."

Horwitz is part of a local group called Concerned Citizens for Esmie, comprised of parents, teachers, friends and other community members. The group began as a small mailing list called "Friends of Esmie," then grew to about 75 to 100 members.

The group has stated on its Web site that its mission is to keep the 16-year-old's case in the juvenile court system. The district attorney's office has filed a motion to waive Tseng's juvenile status in order to try her as an adult on first-degree murder. A conviction carries a sentence of 25 years to life.

"It's very common in a case of intentional homicide with a juvenile who's over the age of 15 for us to file a waiver along with the charges," said prosecutor Paul Morrison. "The reason for that is because it keeps our options open as to what's going to happen with the case."

The juvenile court system offers very little reprimand for those found guilty. A person convicted in juvenile court can only be confined until age 23, according to Morrison, so a waiver to adult status is "almost always" filed for grievous crimes.

"Nobody in the group thinks she should be free or out of jail, but our goal - we make it plain on the Web site - is not to judge guilt or innocence but to keep her in the juvenile court system," Horwitz said. "To put a kid in the adult system - once you understand the difference between the juvenile and adult systems - you realize that it would be barbaric and criminal of our society, in our opinion."

Morrison said he is still investigating whether there may be possible mental health issues, family abuse, drug abuse or other factors that may convince him to withdraw the waiver.

"I have never said that we're hell-bent on waiving this kid," Morrison said. "What I've said is the law presumes waiver, so we file a waiver as a preemptive sort of way to handle things."

Tseng's attorney, Robb Edmonds, said the waiver is currently his first - and perhaps only - priority. He said he is trying to learn everything he can about Tseng's complicated world and culture.

"What I'm trying to do with this waiver motion is present to the judge compelling factors to convince the court that this case ought to stay in juvenile court, and the better I can explain her world, I think the better chance I have in succeeding in that motion," Edmonds said.

Horwitz, who has two teenagers in the Shawnee Mission district who knew Tseng from summer camp, said he hopes his group can help. He encourages people within the Chinese community to visit www.esmie.com to share their thoughts and reactions. Visitors can also sign a petition to keep the Tseng case in juvenile court.

Cultural issues were certainly in play in this family tragedy, Horwitz said.

"That's the hardest thing for Johnson County residents to understand, the cultural issues," Horwitz said. "They haven't grown up in a Chinese family, a Chinese home. They don't know what that's like."

Tseng's next court appearance will be on Oct. 12, where a date for the waiver hearing will likely be set.

Community Seeking Answers to Tragedy

By Anthony Tao - KansasCityChinese.com

September 7, 2005

Yalu Pao is a mother of three teenagers, so she knows about the difficulties of parenting. She can also appreciate the unique problems created by cultural differences, especially those that may get between Chinese parents and their Americanized children.

"I believe the culture of living here in the United States is different than the culture when we were in China," Pao said. "Here, it's more open, kids have more freedom. I don't know if that's good or bad, but usually the Chinese parents expect more discipline, especially in the kids' teenage years."

Pao did not speculate whether the cultural divide may have contributed to the tension between Shuyi Zhang and her daughter, 16-year-old Esmie Tseng. But her voice was just one of many that rose in the weeks following the inexplicable Aug. 19 incident, when Tseng allegedly stabbed and killed her mother in their home in a quiet Blue Valley neighborhood.

"I feel like everybody is talking about this incident because it's struck a bit too close to home for all of us," said Jinsong Zhang, president of the Kansas City Chinese Network Association, the largest Chinese organization in the Metropolitan area. "(Esmie) was an honor roll student and involved in activities - she played the piano for 10 years - and so for this to happen makes us all very concerned."

The Tseng incident came during a grim week for the Kansas City Chinese community. In mid-August - the seventh month in the lunar calendar, which is Ghost Month according to Chinese traditions - three unrelated deaths jolted the community.

On Friday, Aug. 12, Zhihai Cui, 42, was murdered by four teens in Kansas City, Kan. One week later, Tony Wu, an active member of the Free China Association, drowned in a fishing accident. That same evening, Zhang died of multiple stab wounds inflicted by her daughter.

"I don't know how many of the parents thought of [the Tseng] incident as a wake-up call, but some of them probably thought, 'If this could happen, then anything can,'" said Abigail Chang, former president of the Greater Kansas City Free China Association.

Chang said that it might be helpful for one of the Chinese organizations in Kansas City to create a counseling service or hotline to deal with problems that may arise between parents and their children. She stressed that communication is essential for a healthy parent-child relationship.

Johnny Kung, president of the Chinese Club of Greater Kansas City, said his organization would consider organizing a discussion group for people to talk about the incident in a formal setting.

"It's such an interesting case because it gives an image that is the antithesis of the minority image that we have," Kung said. "I think her being Asian, it happening out in the Blue Valley school district, where it's a 'safe' place..."

Kung's voice trailed off. Like everyone else, he could only offer this final thought: "But I don't know."

"Just like everyone else, I'm interested in finding a motive," he said.

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Tseng's first court appearance will be at 9 a.m. on Tuesday, Sept. 13, at the Johnson County Courthouse in Olathe, Kan. She will be represented by attorney Robb Edmonds. The hearing is open for the public.

Friends Puzzled by Family Tragedy

By Anthony Tao - KansasCityChinese.com

August 30, 2005

A small, private memorial service was held last Friday for Shuyi Zhang, who died of multiple stab wounds on Aug. 19 in her home in Overland Park.

Zhang's only daughter, 16-year-old Esmie Tseng, remains in custody, where she awaits her next court appearance on Sept. 13. She has been charged with first-degree murder in the death of her mother.

One of Zhang's close friends who attended the memorial called it a solemn gathering. Among the people present were Zhang's husband, Tao Tseng, and two of Zhang's three brothers - one
who flew in from Australia and the other from Canada.

In a short interview, Zhang's friend repeatedly said she "didn't understand" the situation - what exactly happened on the evening of Aug. 19 and, more importantly, why. Like so many others, she only has news reports, rumors and gossip with which to piece together the baffling case of the teenage matricide.

Another of Zhang's friends, a retired schoolteacher who wished to be identified only by her last name - Way - described Zhang as a "very well educated" lady who could talk about anything. "She was always very responsible and a very conscientious worker," Way said.

Way said she was the first to inform one of Zhang's brothers of the incident.

"At first he couldn't believe it," Way said. "He said, 'Are you sure? Are you sure? This is my sister?'

"Later he called me back and he still couldn't believe it. He said, 'This is the type of thing that only happens in movies.'"

Way said she has spoken once with Tao Tseng since the incident. Last Saturday, in a brief phone conversation, Way asked Tseng whether he wanted to talk about Esmie. According to Way, Tseng replied, "No, I don't want to talk to anybody."

"He sounded very calm," Way said. "It must be very painful for him to talk about this� and besides, in China, when something bad happens within the family, they usually don't want other people to know it."

Way said she and Zhang have had continual e-mail correspondence for the past three years. She often sent Zhang articles from the New York Times by columnists such as Paul Krugman, Maureen Dowd, Bob Herbert and Frank Rich.

"She seemed so happy," Way said. Just two months ago, the family had taken a vacation to the west coast.

According to Way, about two months ago Zhang revealed in an e-mail that her daughter had been dating a boy. Zhang worried that Esmie may have been taking it too seriously, but Way advised her to not interfere and instead approach her daughter as a friend.

According to Way, "Later (Zhang) said, 'I know what you said is right, but really it's very hard,' because her daughter grew up in this society, with American culture.

"And besides, (Esmie) is very smart," Way said. "She had her own point of view."

The cultural gap between mother and daughter was apparent in Esmie's writing. On one of her online blogs, she wrote following the family's west coast vacation: "We were always on the f------ road in the stupid van with that damn tourist group my mom chose. All Orientals, speaking AT me because they know I only understand the minimal jist [sic]."

In January, Tseng poignantly noted on the same Web site: "My character doesn't fit my nationality and its culture. I can't fit many of these expectations, nor do I want to. I'm not who I'm 'supposed' to be, and I'm happy about that, but they're going to f--- it up." It was unclear who she meant by "they're."

Way, like almost everyone else, is still trying to figure out what exactly went wrong between a mother and her only child.

"Nobody knows why," Way said. "We just don't understand."

Overland Park Matricide Leaves Community in Shock

By Anthony Tao - KansasCityChinese.com

August 26, 2005

On the evening of Friday, Aug. 19, an Overland Park girl stabbed and killed her mother, Shuyi Zhang, 55, in their home on the 5600 block of West 125th Street.

Esmie Tseng, 16, a Blue Valley North High School junior, was taken into custody after police found her at the scene. She has been charged with first-degree murder and prosecutors have requested she be tried as an adult. Since the incident, Tseng's father, Tao Tseng, has not appeared in public or made any statements. As of Thursday, efforts to contact him have been unsuccessful.

Matricides are rare in the United States, even more so when the assailant is a girl. According to Paul Mones in the 1991 book When a Child Kills, only four out of every 100 cases of parricide involve a daughter killing her mother.

News of this particular incident left the community bewildered. Several of Tseng's classmates described her as a smart and friendly girl who was a skilled pianist - "She could have played professionally", a schoolmate said. Tseng was an honor roll student and part of the gifted program.

"(The initial response) was probably more surprise, and then it was grief," said BVN principal Dr. Carter Burns Jr. "There're a lot of feelings for the family. It's a very tragic situation."

BVN opened Saturday from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. to offer counseling services. On Monday all teachers at the school read a statement to their students explaining the situation.

But the astonishment was not limited to Blue Valley students.

"I was just completely shocked," said Jake Schumaker, 19, a college sophomore who said he has spoken online with Tseng about three times a week for the past nine months. He described her as a "really cool, down to earth, smart, reasonable" girl who could talk about the worldly and trivial, from the philosophy of life to the movie Fight Club.

Schumaker learned about the incident on Sunday from one of Tseng's online blogs. On her two personal Web sites, Tseng wrote verse, shared her ideas and divulged private secrets. She also documented family problems and revealed she had a volatile relationship with her mom. By Sunday, parts of Tseng's writing had been quoted by certain news outlets.

One of Tseng's blogs received more than 100 messages, mostly words of encouragement from friends. But there were also comments that were derisive, insensitive and vulgar.

On Monday, one of Tseng¡¦s close friends took Tseng's Web sites offline.

"Esmie's name has been made into a joke, and I hate to hear the ridicule," the friend said on condition of anonymity.

The friend also disclaimed rumors of Tseng's erratic behavior, drug abuse and early leave from school Friday, as some have reported.

Burns confirmed that Tseng was not sent home Friday. Still, there remain more unanswered questions than answers.

Many of Tseng's friends contacted for this story did not respond.

"The bottom line is she seemed like a really normal, smart, cool person," Schumaker said. "I never would have expected something like this to happen to her."